I noticed something quite fascinating these past few days when I was in Milan. It is the ‘in’ thing to do to walk around with a book in your hand. For the Italians I saw doing this I think it was simply an object they carried so that if they had some time to spare (on the metro, sitting in a cafe,whilst they were waiting for someone/something etc.) then they had something to keep them occupied. Yet I thought that the simple action of carrying a book in their hand made them look more intellectual – like they were well read and had a curious nature.
Carrying an object conveys something about people I believe. If you carry an umbrella and it isn’t yet raining then you are a well organised and well prepared individual. If you carry a Filofax you have places to go and people to see. If you sit on public transport listening to music it indicates you don’t want to engage in conversation or interaction with those around you. If you carry a coffee in one hand and an iPhone in the other you look like you are rushing to a meeting. You get my point. The choice we make in the objects we carry says something about us. If we carry a map we don’t look like a local. If we carry a camera we look like a photographer or even, indeed, a tourist. If a man carries a bunch of flowers on the train we presume they are for his lover, or in fact his mother. If a woman, on the other hand, carries a bunch of flowers on the train we are left puzzled…who might they be for?